Dear Angelos,
The pipe under my kitchen sink sprung a leak yesterday.
Why am I telling you this?
Well, the technician who came to my rescue — James — did more than fix my plumbing problem…
He also told me a story that I think a lot of men will relate to…LEARN something from.
See, while James tinkered under the sink, we started chatting a bit…just small talk…
But when I told James that I worked as a sex coach — and helped men all over the world have hotter sex and better relationships…
…his eyes lit up!
“Well, maybe you can give them a little advice on my behalf,” James said…
“Because I recently did something I never thought I’d do — you know, in the sex department. But let me tell you, it changed my life!”
And after he told me what happened, I realized James was right…
Other guys (both married and single ) really SHOULD hear his story!
So here it is:
James recently divorced his wife of 33 years…but their sex life died long before that.
Needless to say, James he was ready to get back out there.
So he started signing up to different dating websites…
And while browsing women’s profiles, noticed that, in the section where they were asked to describe what they were “looking for”…
…the vast majority of them all said the same thing:
They wanted a “real” man.
And James admitted that he found this a bit confusing…
Because…what does it mean to be a ‘real man’?
James played football in high school…he worked with his hands…he loved sex…
But he wasn’t a fighter…he had no tattoos and no desire to get any…
And he certainly wasn’t controlling or aggressive around women.
If anything, James had always believed in being a gentleman…
He never raised his voice…and always treated girls with respect.
At first, James wondered if maybe his ways were too old fashioned for the modern dating world…
He even wondered if maybe his marriage lost its spark, because he was “too nice”…and “nice guys” just aren’t sexy to women?
But then he met a woman named Betty. They were introduced by mutual friends…and James was totally smitten.
Betty was beautiful, kind, and very smart…
Their first few dates went perfectly…
But when Betty went back to his place for the very first time…things took a weird turn.
James knew they would be having sex — and he couldn’t wait…
But after some hot and heavy foreplay, Betty suggested something that made him feel very uncomfortable.
“I want you to TIE me up…then, do whatever you please with my body.”
Tying a woman up? James had never done that before.
He’d heard about it…and seen it in adult films…
But he always thought it seemed disrespectful — even violent.
And he couldn’t image why any woman would WANT to be tied up.
“Why would I need to tie you up…don’t you want to have sex with me? I’m not worried about you running away!” James asked nervously.
Betty could tell that James had never experimented with bondage before…so she let it go…and they made love.
But the next day Betty brought it back up.
“James, I really like you,” she said…
“But I’m into some kinky things…and I need a man who can satisfy my needs. My ex-husband wasn’t very adventurous in bed and that’s why we split up…I don’t want that to happen with YOU.”
So Betty talked James into attending a bondage class with her.
She said it would be a good way to introduce him to the world of kink…and help him become more comfortable with the idea of exploring her darker fantasies…
“You might even discover that YOU have some kinky fantasies too” she told him.
The class was located in a plain building in an industrial area. It looked like a small business on the outside…but a DUNGEON on the inside!
James panicked when he first saw the all the whips, chains — and things that looked like torture devices…
But then he noticed that the other “students” (and even the instructor) all looked like perfectly normal people…
…which was a HUGE relief!
And then, it was time for the first “demonstration”…
The instructor had a woman tied up on the table…
She was only wearing a bra and panties…her arms were tied together above her head…and her legs were spread wide open and strapped tightly to the table.
Normally, James would have found a scene like that to be horrific — after all, controlling a woman’s body like that didn’t seem like a very ‘nice’ thing to do…
But for some reason, with Betty by his side, he felt relaxed…and was even starting to get kind of turned on..
And his cock got even harder when he saw what happened NEXT!
The instructor put a cloth in the woman’s mouth and told her to bite down on it. Once her mouth closed around the cloth he reached down…and pulled her panties to the side!
At first, James couldn’t believe that this girl was letting her pussy be exposed to the whole class…but there it was…and it looked like it was starting to get WET.
The instructor started teasing her body…pinching her nipples…and slapping her clit…
The sound of his palm against her flesh sounded like he was using quite a bit of force…but the woman moaned with pleasure every time!
As the class went on, James learned about many different ways and positions to tie a person up in…
He and Betty even got to try some of them in front of the class — with James doing all the tying, of course.
And throughout the class, the instructor kept reminding them that the KEY to a satisfying bondage experience…
…is for the person who is being tied up to relax and give their partner FULL control.
And suddenly it clicked…
James finally got why Betty liked being tied up so much:
It made her feel vulnerable…it felt a little dangerous and exciting…
But most importantly, being dominated turned Betty on…
…because it made her man look extra MANLY!
And even though Betty was a very independent woman — and would never let a man disrespect her or treat her badly…
When it came to SEX, her primal instincts made Betty crave the dominant touch of a ‘real man’…a man who takes CHARGE.
Afterwards, she even admitted all of this to James herself.
She confessed that when he was tying her up, it made him more attractive than ever…
It made him look powerful and assertive — and when he took on that masculine identity, it made Betty very wet!
From that day on, James said he started to see ‘kink’ in a whole new light…
“I guess the lesson here is: You never know until you try it…and that’s something EVERY guy needs to remember,” James told me…
“You know, you only live once…and you’re not getting any younger!”
And not only did James discover an amazing new source of sexual pleasure…
Bondage also taught him that being a “real” man doesn’t mean you need a motorcycle or a tattoo…or that you need to get into fights and be a jerk to women…
It simply meant being more assertive and passionate in his sex life!
So I hope YOU found James’ story as inspiring as I did…
And remember — the lesson here isn’t that you should go out and take a bondage class…or that you should start tying up your girl every time you f*ck…
It’s that you should always be open to new experiences…and when it comes to sex, you should try EVERYTHING at least once…
After all, you never know — something you THINK you won’t enjoy, might turn out to be your new favorite thing;)
And now that I’ve told you what happened to James…I wanna know if anything like this has ever happened to YOU!
Maybe you recently discovered a fetish you never knew you had?
Maybe you tried a position or technique you’d never done before?
Maybe you even had sex with a girl who isn’t your usual “type”…and loved it?
Whatever it was…let me know. I love hearing about ‘first times’ and naughty new experiences!
XOXO,
Shawna
The pipe under my kitchen sink sprung a leak yesterday.
Why am I telling you this?
Well, the technician who came to my rescue — James — did more than fix my plumbing problem…
He also told me a story that I think a lot of men will relate to…LEARN something from.
See, while James tinkered under the sink, we started chatting a bit…just small talk…
But when I told James that I worked as a sex coach — and helped men all over the world have hotter sex and better relationships…
…his eyes lit up!
“Well, maybe you can give them a little advice on my behalf,” James said…
“Because I recently did something I never thought I’d do — you know, in the sex department. But let me tell you, it changed my life!”
And after he told me what happened, I realized James was right…
Other guys (both married and single ) really SHOULD hear his story!
So here it is:
James recently divorced his wife of 33 years…but their sex life died long before that.
Needless to say, James he was ready to get back out there.
So he started signing up to different dating websites…
And while browsing women’s profiles, noticed that, in the section where they were asked to describe what they were “looking for”…
…the vast majority of them all said the same thing:
They wanted a “real” man.
And James admitted that he found this a bit confusing…
Because…what does it mean to be a ‘real man’?
James played football in high school…he worked with his hands…he loved sex…
But he wasn’t a fighter…he had no tattoos and no desire to get any…
And he certainly wasn’t controlling or aggressive around women.
If anything, James had always believed in being a gentleman…
He never raised his voice…and always treated girls with respect.
At first, James wondered if maybe his ways were too old fashioned for the modern dating world…
He even wondered if maybe his marriage lost its spark, because he was “too nice”…and “nice guys” just aren’t sexy to women?
But then he met a woman named Betty. They were introduced by mutual friends…and James was totally smitten.
Betty was beautiful, kind, and very smart…
Their first few dates went perfectly…
But when Betty went back to his place for the very first time…things took a weird turn.
James knew they would be having sex — and he couldn’t wait…
But after some hot and heavy foreplay, Betty suggested something that made him feel very uncomfortable.
“I want you to TIE me up…then, do whatever you please with my body.”
Tying a woman up? James had never done that before.
He’d heard about it…and seen it in adult films…
But he always thought it seemed disrespectful — even violent.
And he couldn’t image why any woman would WANT to be tied up.
“Why would I need to tie you up…don’t you want to have sex with me? I’m not worried about you running away!” James asked nervously.
Betty could tell that James had never experimented with bondage before…so she let it go…and they made love.
But the next day Betty brought it back up.
“James, I really like you,” she said…
“But I’m into some kinky things…and I need a man who can satisfy my needs. My ex-husband wasn’t very adventurous in bed and that’s why we split up…I don’t want that to happen with YOU.”
So Betty talked James into attending a bondage class with her.
She said it would be a good way to introduce him to the world of kink…and help him become more comfortable with the idea of exploring her darker fantasies…
“You might even discover that YOU have some kinky fantasies too” she told him.
The class was located in a plain building in an industrial area. It looked like a small business on the outside…but a DUNGEON on the inside!
James panicked when he first saw the all the whips, chains — and things that looked like torture devices…
But then he noticed that the other “students” (and even the instructor) all looked like perfectly normal people…
…which was a HUGE relief!
And then, it was time for the first “demonstration”…
The instructor had a woman tied up on the table…
She was only wearing a bra and panties…her arms were tied together above her head…and her legs were spread wide open and strapped tightly to the table.
Normally, James would have found a scene like that to be horrific — after all, controlling a woman’s body like that didn’t seem like a very ‘nice’ thing to do…
But for some reason, with Betty by his side, he felt relaxed…and was even starting to get kind of turned on..
And his cock got even harder when he saw what happened NEXT!
The instructor put a cloth in the woman’s mouth and told her to bite down on it. Once her mouth closed around the cloth he reached down…and pulled her panties to the side!
At first, James couldn’t believe that this girl was letting her pussy be exposed to the whole class…but there it was…and it looked like it was starting to get WET.
The instructor started teasing her body…pinching her nipples…and slapping her clit…
The sound of his palm against her flesh sounded like he was using quite a bit of force…but the woman moaned with pleasure every time!
As the class went on, James learned about many different ways and positions to tie a person up in…
He and Betty even got to try some of them in front of the class — with James doing all the tying, of course.
And throughout the class, the instructor kept reminding them that the KEY to a satisfying bondage experience…
…is for the person who is being tied up to relax and give their partner FULL control.
And suddenly it clicked…
James finally got why Betty liked being tied up so much:
It made her feel vulnerable…it felt a little dangerous and exciting…
But most importantly, being dominated turned Betty on…
…because it made her man look extra MANLY!
And even though Betty was a very independent woman — and would never let a man disrespect her or treat her badly…
When it came to SEX, her primal instincts made Betty crave the dominant touch of a ‘real man’…a man who takes CHARGE.
Afterwards, she even admitted all of this to James herself.
She confessed that when he was tying her up, it made him more attractive than ever…
It made him look powerful and assertive — and when he took on that masculine identity, it made Betty very wet!
From that day on, James said he started to see ‘kink’ in a whole new light…
“I guess the lesson here is: You never know until you try it…and that’s something EVERY guy needs to remember,” James told me…
“You know, you only live once…and you’re not getting any younger!”
And not only did James discover an amazing new source of sexual pleasure…
Bondage also taught him that being a “real” man doesn’t mean you need a motorcycle or a tattoo…or that you need to get into fights and be a jerk to women…
It simply meant being more assertive and passionate in his sex life!
So I hope YOU found James’ story as inspiring as I did…
And remember — the lesson here isn’t that you should go out and take a bondage class…or that you should start tying up your girl every time you f*ck…
It’s that you should always be open to new experiences…and when it comes to sex, you should try EVERYTHING at least once…
After all, you never know — something you THINK you won’t enjoy, might turn out to be your new favorite thing;)
And now that I’ve told you what happened to James…I wanna know if anything like this has ever happened to YOU!
Maybe you recently discovered a fetish you never knew you had?
Maybe you tried a position or technique you’d never done before?
Maybe you even had sex with a girl who isn’t your usual “type”…and loved it?
Whatever it was…let me know. I love hearing about ‘first times’ and naughty new experiences!
XOXO,
Shawna
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