Angelos,
As a woman, I know we can be pretty damn COMPLICATED!
And sometimes, we can mess with your heads a little...
I know women who will act super sweet or pretend to flirt with a guy just to get a free drink...and then bail!
I’ve seen girls chat up a storm and never mention the fact that they’re in a relationship until a guy asks her for her number.
And there are a TON of women who will totally lead you on just to enjoy the flattery.
It’s cruel I know, but it’s the truth and as your friend, I want to help you figure out if the girl you’re interested in is ACTUALLY into you...
Or if she's just trying to score a compliment and a free night at the bar.
The 7 DEFINITE Signs She’s Actually Into You...
1.) She Spends Time On You Even When You’re Not Around
One thing that is SUPER important is the fact that the attraction between two people should grow even when you’re not in each other’s company.
If anything, it should become even stronger when the two of you aren’t together!
A pretty good sign she’s into you is when she knows you’re busy, but she texts or calls you anyway.
She is communicating when you can’t respond and that’s a HUGE indicator that she’s got you on her mind.
Whether she leaves a cute voicemail just to say hello or sends a text letting you know she’s thinking of you...you know for sure your girl is into you!
Another way a girl might spend time on you when you aren’t around is by buying you a gift just because :)
For example, when I’m doing a little shopping and I see something that J might like, I’ll buy it for him.
Trust me, a woman won’t waste her time or money on a man she’s not really into. So keep that in mind :)
2.) She Stalks You On Facebook
These days, when a woman first meets a guy, the QUICKEST and easiest way to get to know him is by digging up dirt on Facebook or any other social media network.
If she starts leaving you comments on older photos or posts, you’ll know for sure that she’s been stalking you a bit! But in a good way =)
She’s using your Facebook to find out more about you without coming on too strong or scaring you away.
Just keep in mind that if she doesn’t send you a friend request, she might not actually be that interested.
3.) She Wants You All To Herself
A woman will DEFINITELY make it known that you are hers if she’s really into you.
If you are at a bar and she see’s you talking to another girl, chances are that if she’s into you, she will interrupt the conversation faster than lightning.
She will do everything in her power to make sure every other girl in the bar sees the two of you together.
And to make things a little more known, she may even kiss your cheek and be extra touchy just to make sure YOU know she’s feeling it :)
Girls can get pretty feisty when it comes to getting what she wants, and if she likes you, she wont be afraid to put up a fight. Meow!!
4.) She Asks Questions
Women are often very reserved when it comes to making the first move or approaching a guy in general.
If she does this, she might be very outgoing or she’s just REALLY into you. She might start by saying something like...“I think I know you from somewhere” just to initially open a conversation.
She will also want to know more about who you are.
So pay attention to how engaged she is in the conversation.
If she asks you open-ended questions that make you give a detailed response versus a yes or no response, it’s a pretty good sign she is trying to prolong the convo and hoping to get more out of you!
5.) She Wants To Know You're Into Her
Women NEED to feel wanted.
And in order to be comfortable making it known that they like you, they want to know you like them back.
Sometimes, a girl will flirt a little more than usual, or act sexually forward just to test the waters and see if you make a move.
A woman might do this by licking or biting her lips, playing with her hair, or showing off her neck.
These are all signals that she wants to turn up the heat.
A woman who touches you when she speaks is another sign of interest, and it gives you the opportunity to touch her back.
Doing this will let her know that you are interested as well. So keep checking out her body movements to see if she is really initiating that physical contact, and if so, get on it!
6.) She Stays Close Enough For You To Kiss Her
Women are very, very smart when it comes to getting the things they want...
Especially a kiss out of a man they’re after.
Pay attention to how she reacts when you move in close to whisper something in her ear for example.
If she likes you, she will turn her cheek to listen closely and place her hand on your thigh.
The more comfortable she is, the more attraction and contact there will be.
Another thing she might do is press herself harder into you when you go in for a hug.
She will position herself so that her face is very close to yours.
If she looks the other way...maybe you should to :(
7.) She Looks You Directly In The Eye
The longer a woman keeps direct eye contact, the more she wants you.
Eye contact is an invitation, and if you don’t return the gaze, she can feel rejected.
The girl who looks you in the eyes before you look into hers is definitely chasing you ;)
And if she looks you in the eye for a long period of time, while holding a smile...she probably wants to do the dirty with you.
Pupils actually dilate due to the response of oxytocin and dopamine in the system, and those levels will grow stronger the more attracted to you she is.
So...keep an eye out =)
Gaining confidence and understanding how women communicate is the first step in meeting more attractive women, and I certainly hope this helps make things a little easier on you!
XOXO
Shawna
P.S. Let me know what you think about this email! Can't wait to hear from you!
As a woman, I know we can be pretty damn COMPLICATED!
And sometimes, we can mess with your heads a little...
I know women who will act super sweet or pretend to flirt with a guy just to get a free drink...and then bail!
I’ve seen girls chat up a storm and never mention the fact that they’re in a relationship until a guy asks her for her number.
And there are a TON of women who will totally lead you on just to enjoy the flattery.
It’s cruel I know, but it’s the truth and as your friend, I want to help you figure out if the girl you’re interested in is ACTUALLY into you...
Or if she's just trying to score a compliment and a free night at the bar.
The 7 DEFINITE Signs She’s Actually Into You...
1.) She Spends Time On You Even When You’re Not Around
One thing that is SUPER important is the fact that the attraction between two people should grow even when you’re not in each other’s company.
If anything, it should become even stronger when the two of you aren’t together!
A pretty good sign she’s into you is when she knows you’re busy, but she texts or calls you anyway.
She is communicating when you can’t respond and that’s a HUGE indicator that she’s got you on her mind.
Whether she leaves a cute voicemail just to say hello or sends a text letting you know she’s thinking of you...you know for sure your girl is into you!
Another way a girl might spend time on you when you aren’t around is by buying you a gift just because :)
For example, when I’m doing a little shopping and I see something that J might like, I’ll buy it for him.
Trust me, a woman won’t waste her time or money on a man she’s not really into. So keep that in mind :)
2.) She Stalks You On Facebook
These days, when a woman first meets a guy, the QUICKEST and easiest way to get to know him is by digging up dirt on Facebook or any other social media network.
If she starts leaving you comments on older photos or posts, you’ll know for sure that she’s been stalking you a bit! But in a good way =)
She’s using your Facebook to find out more about you without coming on too strong or scaring you away.
Just keep in mind that if she doesn’t send you a friend request, she might not actually be that interested.
3.) She Wants You All To Herself
A woman will DEFINITELY make it known that you are hers if she’s really into you.
If you are at a bar and she see’s you talking to another girl, chances are that if she’s into you, she will interrupt the conversation faster than lightning.
She will do everything in her power to make sure every other girl in the bar sees the two of you together.
And to make things a little more known, she may even kiss your cheek and be extra touchy just to make sure YOU know she’s feeling it :)
Girls can get pretty feisty when it comes to getting what she wants, and if she likes you, she wont be afraid to put up a fight. Meow!!
4.) She Asks Questions
Women are often very reserved when it comes to making the first move or approaching a guy in general.
If she does this, she might be very outgoing or she’s just REALLY into you. She might start by saying something like...“I think I know you from somewhere” just to initially open a conversation.
She will also want to know more about who you are.
So pay attention to how engaged she is in the conversation.
If she asks you open-ended questions that make you give a detailed response versus a yes or no response, it’s a pretty good sign she is trying to prolong the convo and hoping to get more out of you!
5.) She Wants To Know You're Into Her
Women NEED to feel wanted.
And in order to be comfortable making it known that they like you, they want to know you like them back.
Sometimes, a girl will flirt a little more than usual, or act sexually forward just to test the waters and see if you make a move.
A woman might do this by licking or biting her lips, playing with her hair, or showing off her neck.
These are all signals that she wants to turn up the heat.
A woman who touches you when she speaks is another sign of interest, and it gives you the opportunity to touch her back.
Doing this will let her know that you are interested as well. So keep checking out her body movements to see if she is really initiating that physical contact, and if so, get on it!
6.) She Stays Close Enough For You To Kiss Her
Women are very, very smart when it comes to getting the things they want...
Especially a kiss out of a man they’re after.
Pay attention to how she reacts when you move in close to whisper something in her ear for example.
If she likes you, she will turn her cheek to listen closely and place her hand on your thigh.
The more comfortable she is, the more attraction and contact there will be.
Another thing she might do is press herself harder into you when you go in for a hug.
She will position herself so that her face is very close to yours.
If she looks the other way...maybe you should to :(
7.) She Looks You Directly In The Eye
The longer a woman keeps direct eye contact, the more she wants you.
Eye contact is an invitation, and if you don’t return the gaze, she can feel rejected.
The girl who looks you in the eyes before you look into hers is definitely chasing you ;)
And if she looks you in the eye for a long period of time, while holding a smile...she probably wants to do the dirty with you.
Pupils actually dilate due to the response of oxytocin and dopamine in the system, and those levels will grow stronger the more attracted to you she is.
So...keep an eye out =)
Gaining confidence and understanding how women communicate is the first step in meeting more attractive women, and I certainly hope this helps make things a little easier on you!
XOXO
Shawna
P.S. Let me know what you think about this email! Can't wait to hear from you!
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