Angelos,
If you haven’t already noticed, I talk about confidence A LOT...
And that’s because it’s one of the most important traits a man can have...especially if he wants to have a TON of GREAT sex.
You can build your sexual confidence by brushing up on your sex skills, taking good care of your body, and even setting goals for yourself OUTSIDE of the bedroom.
But many guys think being sexually confident or attractive means you gotta have a big bulge in your pants.
Well...you couldn’t be more wrong!
I mean sure that might be the case for some men, but women definitely don’t seem to agree.
Not even me! It's all about the motion of the ocean if you know what I mean =)
Anyway, I came across a study the other day and I think you might find the results VERY interesting...
Here's what I learned...
The average penis size is 5.6 inches, and if you don’t think you measure up to that, I have more news for you...
The study also found that only 50% of guys weren’t satisfied with their penis size...
But...in the same exact study, 84% of women WERE satisfied with their partner’s penis size.
Um, hello...doesn’t that tell you something?!
Women care about MORE than just the size of your junk.
So stop your whining and gain a little confidence would ya!
Keep reading to find out what she ACTUALLY cares about =)
1.) Cleanliness
Whether you think so or not...clean bed sheets are a HUGE turn on for women.
Did you know that the average dude only washes his sheets four times a year? Umm, GROSS!!!
Come on, don't be THAT guy...do your damn laundry and clean yourself up a little.
Cleanliness and basic grooming will not only make your girl happy, but it will also keep your mind and life organized.
So trim your unibrow, use a Q-tip once in a while, and if you don’t enjoy doing laundry very often, buy a few sets of bed sheets so you can change them out after a super WET night of lovemaking ;)
Trust me...it will definitely improve your sex life.
2.) Physique
Yes, that’s right...us women LOVE a hot body, and we love it WAY more than a big penis.
I mean come on...men aren't the only ones who like to keep the lights on...and we want something nice to look at too!
Losing weight and getting in shape is the ONE thing you actually have control over. And a BIG part of sex is feeling sexy. The sexier you feel, the more sex you shall have!
If you hit the gym a few times a week, you will be surprised at how much more comfortable and relaxed you will be in the bedroom.
It's been proven that people who exercise more have MORE sex, and it reduces erectile dysfunction!
Plus, it shows dedication...and THAT’S attractive.
3.) Sex Toys
Ok, I know what you’re thinking...
“When a woman brings sex toys into the bedroom, it means I’m not good enough in the sack.”
No, no no...you've got it ALL wrong.
First of all, if she introduces sex toys, it means she is confident and very comfortable with you, which is obviously a good sign.
And doing this in NO way means she isn’t satisfied. She is only trying to ENHANCE an already fantastic sex life.
Plus, in that study I was talking about earlier, women who used vibrators or sex toys in the bedroom reported higher levels of arousal, lubrication and STRONGER orgasms.
That's the PERFECT recipe to MIND-BLOWING sex!
Personally, I own just about every sex toy you can think of, and I'm not ashamed!
Experimenting with them has taught me so much about my body, my orgasms, and has helped me build A LOT of confidence under the sheets =)
4.) Endurance
Sure a big wiener is magical...but what good is it if you blow your load in a few seconds?
Premature ejaculation is a HUGE concern for so many men, but there’s a bunch of little things you can do to help train yourself to last longer.
Try taking slower and deeper breaths for a few minutes at a time during sex can help you last longer.
You can also have your girl get you off before getting busy. That way it takes you a little longer to recharge your sex battery and you can last longer the second time around.
Or...use the start-stop method. To do this, give your girl a few pumps, then pull out, and repeat a few times till you’re ready to finish!
If you haven’t already noticed, I talk about confidence A LOT...
And that’s because it’s one of the most important traits a man can have...especially if he wants to have a TON of GREAT sex.
You can build your sexual confidence by brushing up on your sex skills, taking good care of your body, and even setting goals for yourself OUTSIDE of the bedroom.
But many guys think being sexually confident or attractive means you gotta have a big bulge in your pants.
Well...you couldn’t be more wrong!
I mean sure that might be the case for some men, but women definitely don’t seem to agree.
Not even me! It's all about the motion of the ocean if you know what I mean =)
Anyway, I came across a study the other day and I think you might find the results VERY interesting...
Here's what I learned...
The average penis size is 5.6 inches, and if you don’t think you measure up to that, I have more news for you...
The study also found that only 50% of guys weren’t satisfied with their penis size...
But...in the same exact study, 84% of women WERE satisfied with their partner’s penis size.
Um, hello...doesn’t that tell you something?!
Women care about MORE than just the size of your junk.
So stop your whining and gain a little confidence would ya!
Keep reading to find out what she ACTUALLY cares about =)
1.) Cleanliness
Whether you think so or not...clean bed sheets are a HUGE turn on for women.
Did you know that the average dude only washes his sheets four times a year? Umm, GROSS!!!
Come on, don't be THAT guy...do your damn laundry and clean yourself up a little.
Cleanliness and basic grooming will not only make your girl happy, but it will also keep your mind and life organized.
So trim your unibrow, use a Q-tip once in a while, and if you don’t enjoy doing laundry very often, buy a few sets of bed sheets so you can change them out after a super WET night of lovemaking ;)
Trust me...it will definitely improve your sex life.
2.) Physique
Yes, that’s right...us women LOVE a hot body, and we love it WAY more than a big penis.
I mean come on...men aren't the only ones who like to keep the lights on...and we want something nice to look at too!
Losing weight and getting in shape is the ONE thing you actually have control over. And a BIG part of sex is feeling sexy. The sexier you feel, the more sex you shall have!
If you hit the gym a few times a week, you will be surprised at how much more comfortable and relaxed you will be in the bedroom.
It's been proven that people who exercise more have MORE sex, and it reduces erectile dysfunction!
Plus, it shows dedication...and THAT’S attractive.
3.) Sex Toys
Ok, I know what you’re thinking...
“When a woman brings sex toys into the bedroom, it means I’m not good enough in the sack.”
No, no no...you've got it ALL wrong.
First of all, if she introduces sex toys, it means she is confident and very comfortable with you, which is obviously a good sign.
And doing this in NO way means she isn’t satisfied. She is only trying to ENHANCE an already fantastic sex life.
Plus, in that study I was talking about earlier, women who used vibrators or sex toys in the bedroom reported higher levels of arousal, lubrication and STRONGER orgasms.
That's the PERFECT recipe to MIND-BLOWING sex!
Personally, I own just about every sex toy you can think of, and I'm not ashamed!
Experimenting with them has taught me so much about my body, my orgasms, and has helped me build A LOT of confidence under the sheets =)
4.) Endurance
Sure a big wiener is magical...but what good is it if you blow your load in a few seconds?
Premature ejaculation is a HUGE concern for so many men, but there’s a bunch of little things you can do to help train yourself to last longer.
Try taking slower and deeper breaths for a few minutes at a time during sex can help you last longer.
You can also have your girl get you off before getting busy. That way it takes you a little longer to recharge your sex battery and you can last longer the second time around.
Or...use the start-stop method. To do this, give your girl a few pumps, then pull out, and repeat a few times till you’re ready to finish!
5.) Your Tongue
It’s all about the tongue my dear.
And in case you didn’t already notice...giving your girl an orgasm through oral BEFORE having sex makes her even MORE orgasmic!
If you want to make you lady very happy, go down on her A LOT! And show her that you are willing to please her for as long as you need to.
Oral sex is the easiest way to a FASTER climax and can lead to multiple orgasms during the actual intercourse.
If you’re not as big as you’d like to be in the sack, using your tongue to its fullest potential is the BEST way to make up for it.
And your girl won’t even think twice about returning the favor.
Why do you think "J" loves foreplay so much! Hmm...
Between you and I... he's really not THAT big, but he totally makes up for it with his tongue. And that's no joke.
6.) Commitment
Women are more likely to have an orgasm with someone they actually care about than during a one-night stand.
And don't be so surprised! Sure, a sweaty one-night stand with a complete stranger is super hot, but GREAT sex starts with a woman’s mind.
She needs to feel an emotional AND sexual connection in order to fully relax and let her body go during a good romp.
Letting her know that you are in it for HER will make the sex more passionate and she will be a whole lot happier!
So forget about size! It’s the quality of sex she’s after.
7.) Communication
Hands down, the MOST important factor to the best sex possible is through communication.
Effective communication will allow you to better understand her sexual needs, what she likes, and what gives her the STRONGEST orgasms.
Talking about sex can be a little awkward at first, but the more comfortable you become with your girl, the easier it will be.
And once you break the ice and get the communication going, the sex will INSTANTLY improve.
It’s a two-way street. You tell her what you want and she tells you what she wants...
Then you’ll know FOR SURE that you are pleasing each other and the sexual confidence that comes with knowing you’re truly satisfying your woman is HUGE!
So there you have it lover, 7 other things she cares about MORE than your junk.
And I REALLY hope this helps you build sexual confidence and gets you laid like no one's business...
After all...that's what I'm here for! =)
XOXO Shawna
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